If you’ve already gone through hours of therapy or read a ton of books and articles on transgender issues, but still feel paralyzed by indecision, you are not alone. I have also let opportunities, to come to terms with my female identity, slip by numerous times. So I understand how difficult it is for you to act.
That is why I feel a personal desire to help you, making good use of my decades worth of knowledge and experience. So that you, too, can become unstuck and start taking the right, courageous steps towards womanhood.
I experienced decades of forced gender conformism by society, family members and even therapists who didn`t know any better. So I feel a special urge to help transgender women like you avoid the sticky trap I fell into, and start you on a strong clear note. So that you know, from early on, how your own transition process will look like, and who is there to support you along the way.
It made a world of difference when I found, at last, an experienced and knowledgeable group of specialists, like my therapist, endocrinologist and voice trainer, people who I could fully trust and who had my best interests in mind. I would love to have that be your case as well. Many transgender women have made it through successfully because of the comprehensive support they received from a dedicated team of professionals. My only regret is that I didn`t find that support sooner.
So what is my coaching then?
As a coach, what I do is listen very attentively to your fears, desires, problems, etc. Then, based on my own experience and your needs, I’ll gently suggest multiple options, allowing you to pursue your own unique path.
I’ll help you develop a step by step transition plan, that helps you feel safe and comfortable every step of the way. I’ll be giving you all the encouragement and support you need, so you are able to finally achieve the freedom of becoming who you are inside. I will encourage you to take initiative so you fully experience the transformation yourself.
When you become my client, I will discuss with you what becoming a woman means to you, how far you are willing to go, what problems you may have at work or with your family, that we need to address, and any other issues you want to discuss before we customize a transition plan for you.
We will also create a flexible timetable, so you have an idea of how long it may take to reach your ultimate goal. Then we will meet every other week for approximately 40 minutes each, to discuss the task at hand and any issues you may be encountering as a transgender woman.
But rest assured, there is no rigid structure to which I adhere. All my experience and understanding will be at your disposal, so we can tailor together a coaching program that best reflects your vision of what a happy and satisfying life should look like.